Psalm 36:8 says, “They are abundantly satisfied with the fullness of Your house, and you give them drink from the river of Your pleasures.”

Ephesians 3:19 Amplified helps me understand the word fullness. I encourage you to drink in these words as you read them. It says, “…that you may be filled (through all your being) unto all the fullness of God (may have the richest measure of the divine Presence, and become a body wholly filled and flooded with God Himself)!”

Does that describe your relationship with the Lord? As I was memorizing Psalm 36:7-10 I thought about David’s words. For him, the house of the Lord was a tabernacle in Jerusalem. He wrote Psalm 122, a song of ascents. 

Verse 1 says, “I was glad when they said to me, Let us go into the house of the Lord.” For us it can mean meeting with folks in our churches. However I meditated as I was memorizing. I believe we can liken it to our intimate communion with the Lord ~ our whole being saturated with His Presence.

Our circumstances do not define us. We are to turn our adverse circumstances into praise. Paraphrasing Habakkuk 3:17. Though there will be no figs, no grapes, no olives, nor food nor herds, yet…

Verse 18 says, “Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.” I love verse 19 in the Amplified. It crescendos saying “The Lord God is my Strength, my personal bravery, and my invincible army; He makes my feet like hinds’ feet and will make me to walk (not stand still in terror, but to walk) and make (spiritual) progress upon my high places (of trouble, suffering, or responsibility)!”

Here is our focus when we are troubled on every side. We are IN Christ. We are chosen in Him to be holy, blameless, adopted, accepted, redeemed, and forgiven. He is always working everything in our lives according to the counsel of His will. Ephesians 1:4-7, 11. In Him we are righteous. 2 Corinthians 5:21. The next time you are troubled? Drink deep from the well of your salvation. Isaiah 12:3.

In junior high school, my math teacher said something shocking. In front of our whole class he said, “Marilyn, you are like a lump on a log.” That’s a great illustration of reviling. It is name calling.

Various verses in the Amplified use these words: insult, wound us with an accursed sting, scoff, sneer at, railing, and slandering. 1 Peter 3:9 says that when people revile us we are to do the opposite ~ bless.

My dad was a righteous name caller. He would call someone. When they answered, he would say, “Saint” and say their name. Paul often began his letters addressing the saints. Ephesians 1:1 says, “…to the saints who are in Ephesus….” Every believer is called a saint.

Reviling is a pronouncement. If you have been called something that you aren’t, I encourage you to forgive that person. Then renounce (disown) what they spoke over you. Next declare who you really are in the eyes of the Lord. Then ask the Lord to bless that person with what they obviously lack. That is coming in an opposite spirit ~ canceling the reviling.

The Holy Spirit taught me to take the areas that were fleshly reactions in a person, then turn them into a prayer. I would ask the Lord to bless them with the opposite. Let’s take a person who is always grumbling and negative. We would pray, “Lord, I ask You to bless them with a heart of gratitude.” By asking Him to bless them, we circumvent our own flesh from reacting in judgment. 

Here is an idea He gave me. I’ve used it many times, as well as encouraging others to do so. I would send them a card and write out the blessings like this: May the Lord bless you with discernment. May He strengthen your inner man. May He fulfill your greatest need through a new revelation of His love for you. 

In Genesis 12:3 the Lord said to Abraham, “…and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.” Galatians 3:9 says, “So then those who are of faith are blessed with believing Abraham.” 1 Peter 3:9 says of blessing, “…knowing that you were called to this…”

1 Peter 3:9 gives us how to please the Lord when we encounter fleshly reactions. It says, “Not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.”

Why do we react in our flesh? Our goals, desires, wants, pursuits, or intentions, etc. were blocked. Psalm 34:9 says, “Oh, fear the Lord, you His saints! There is no want to those who fear Him.” No want. Proverbs 9:10 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…”

What is God’s wisdom like? James 3:17 says that it is, “…first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy.” Psalm 34:10 says, “The young lions lack and suffer hunger; but those who seek he Lord shall not lack any good thing.” Not lack. 

Difficult people have blocked goals that continually gall them. They are impudent, harsh, and not respectful to others. Years ago the Holy Spirit taught me about coming in the opposite spirit through blessing.

In 1 Peter 3:8, an essential character quality was mentioned as a means of maintaining one mind. It says, “…having compassion for one another…” Compassion is a bond of the Spirit for unity. 

In Ephesians 4:1-2, Paul instructed his readers to walk worthy of their calling. “…with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.” Verse 3 says, “Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”

1828 Noah Webster Dictionary for compassion: a suffering with another; painful sympathy; a sensation of sorrow excited by the distress or misfortunes of another; pity; commiseration. Our Creator is a God of compassion.

Psalm 78:38 says, “But He, being full of compassion, forgave their iniquity, and did not destroy them. Yes, many a time He turned His anger away, and did not stir up all His wrath.”

What an example for us to walk in His steps. The opposite of compassion might be indifference, or judging others with a critical spirit. Both would indicate a lack of character development ~ not trained through their trials. Hebrews 12:10.

Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”

We see in the above verse more ways that are essential to keep us in a single mindset. Forgiveness is key. Note that it said, “…if anyone has a complaint against another…” That is a signal that our hearts need to take notice of.

Complaining is fertile ground for division. Grumbling comes from the heart. Let Matthew 12:34 be a warning. It says, “…For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks…” Our thoughts are what precede our words.

They were all of one accord as they waited in the upper room. Acts 2:1. That was 120 plus folks that had to come into unity before the Holy Spirit manifested Himself. It was the beginning of the church—the body of Christ. 1 Corinthians 12:27 says, “Now you are the body of Christ, and members individually.”

Psalm 133:1 says, “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.” Mark 3:25 says, “And if a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” We know this to be true regarding church splits, divorce, and friendships.

1 Peter 3:8 gives us the way to maintain unity. It says, “…having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous.” These are all character qualities that are refined as we go through deep trials. 

1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man, but God is faithful…” 2 Corinthians 1:4 says, “Who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”

The Lord knows our hearts. Division starts with one negative thought. If we dialogue with it, the temptation to continue is a strong pull from the enemy. Beware. Embrace the hearts of those around you, with His love imparted to you at salvation.

1 Peter 3:8 says, “Finally, all of you be of one mind…” Peter was saying that everyone of you without exception…be of one mind. One cannot be divided by one. There have to be multiple numbers. 

I use division all the time, especially when I am reducing a recipe, or figuring out the cost of something per pound. Say that you have $100 that you want to give to four people. You have to divide 100 by 4 in order to determine how much to give each one. We cut up a pie by dividing the pieces equally.

Romans 16:17 says, “Now I urge you, brethren, note those who cause divisions and offenses…” I thought back to the account of Joseph and his brothers. He gave a bad report about them to their father. What happened? 

Genesis 37:4 says, “…they hated him and could not speak peaceably to him.” This is a warning to us. Do not receive a bad report, or enter into gossip or talebearing. It divides and destroys fellowship. Proverbs 16:28 says that a whisperer separates friends.

Paul explained how to be in one accord in Philippians 2:3-4. They say, “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.”

1 Peter 3:9 gives us more clarity. It says, “Not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.”

Romans 12:9-21 is a great template. I call it the Christian Magna Carta. Verses 9-10 say, “Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another.” 

Ephesians 4:29 further instructs us. It says, “Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.” Always speaking in a way that imparts grace, will build others up rather than tear them down.