In Romans 12:3 it says that the gift of mercy is extended with cheerfulness. I love the Strong’s definition. It means graciousness, joyfulness, gladness, benevolence, amiability, cheerfulness, gaiety, affability. Note in my Bible. In primitive lands Bible translators define it as the heart is laughing and the eyes are dancing. 

We are to put on mercy, somewhat like as we put on clothes. We clothe our attitude with His mercy towards us and extend it to others. Romans 13:14 says, “But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.”

When we want to lash out in anger, we must remember God’s mercy to us. Proverbs 29:11 in the Amplified says, “A (self-confident) fool utters all his anger, but a wise man  holds it back and stills it.” What a contrast between a fool and one who is wise.