The Holy Spirit taught me to take the areas that were fleshly reactions in a person, then turn them into a prayer. I would ask the Lord to bless them with the opposite. Let’s take a person who is always grumbling and negative. We would pray, “Lord, I ask You to bless them with a heart of gratitude.” By asking Him to bless them, we circumvent our own flesh from reacting in judgment. 

Here is an idea He gave me. I’ve used it many times, as well as encouraging others to do so. I would send them a card and write out the blessings like this: May the Lord bless you with discernment. May He strengthen your inner man. May He fulfill your greatest need through a new revelation of His love for you. 

In Genesis 12:3 the Lord said to Abraham, “…and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.” Galatians 3:9 says, “So then those who are of faith are blessed with believing Abraham.” 1 Peter 3:9 says of blessing, “…knowing that you were called to this…”