When desires are not met, or hopes are dashed, the bait of satan is dangled in front of us. John 11:1-44 is an amazing passage. Mary and Martha had sent word to Jesus that Lazarus was sick.
Verse 4 says, “…This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified through it.” The Lord purposely waited. Verse 6 says, “…He stayed two more days in the place where He was.”
Lazarus died. Jesus and his disciples went to Bethany. Verse 21 recorded Martha’s broken expectations. It says, “Now Martha said to Jesus, Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”
Mental conversations of ‘if only’s’ often come when our expectations are broken. It is not only futile, but emotionally fatiguing. The Greek meaning for futile is: empty, unproductive, lacking substance, ineffectual, and worthless.
There is only One who is in control. He is our Masterful Orchestrator. It is prudently essential to lay our hopes and dreams before Him with an open hand ~ placing our expectations on Him alone.